Last summer I did my best to make up for it, and we did have a nice summer, but I felt like I missed the high mark I'd hoped for.
This summer is, in my opinion, nailing that mark.
It is always a challenge for me to balance activities to keep the girls entertained with down time that my girls seem to need. Too much down time and they're bored. Too many activities and they complain that they never got a chance to relax and play around the house. They play really well together, and like to do their own things, so having them around the house is really not a problem. We've done pretty well at taking time for both this year.
One reason I'm feeling good about this summer is because of the overwhelmingly successful trip to the Oregon coast taken by my extended family. A lot of that success was due to the choice of house to rent. It came down to two houses, a more expensive house that was roomier and probably more centrally located to what we thought we'd be doing, or a little bit cheaper house that didn't claim to have as many beds but looked more private. The decision was up to me and my sister-in-law, as we are the ones with the kids and would have to figure out the sleeping arrangements with the smaller house, possibly putting someone on a couch or floor or something.
We went with the private house. And we won.
I had a hard time stopping congratulating myself on what a fabulous choice we made. The house itself contributed greatly to what a wonderful time we had.
We had a beach mostly to ourselves...
It was hard to leave.
As we were packing up Thing 2 asked "What is our next big vacation this summer?"
"Honey, this trip to Oregon is a really big vacation. Bigger than we usually do. We're not really going to have another one like this this summer."
"You mean the whole rest of the summer is going to be totally boring?!"
No, there is your birthday, there is horseback riding, there are a couple of summer camps. There will be dinners on the deck, and bike rides, and hikes. Totally not boring. Not nearly long enough, but totally not boring.